"Honesty is Key"
I believe that honesty is key in life. Do you recall the last time that you told a lie? Many people go about their day, not even noticing that they are telling a lie. In my opinion, to live authentically, you should tell the truth to live free of doubt; and know you are doing the right thing. Well, why is honesty important? It is of great significance because it can make a massive difference in your life when you are not truthful.
Last summer, I learned that honesty is the best policy, which is something that we are always taught. That day when I was just watching a show, my mom came into my room; and I put my phone down so I could speak to her. I presume I did it too quickly, that it appeared that I was hiding something; which lead her to question me. At the time I was way too stubborn so I didn't tell her what I was doing, even though I wasn't hiding anything. That one slight event turned into her taking my phone away for a very long time, especially since I refused to tell her my password as well.
Therefore, she restarted my whole phone, and gave it back to me completely blank after about a month. I had to wait long before buying a new one myself. Eventually, we both forgave each other for what had happened; and even though this was a negative experience, I am now joyful to have experienced this to know to be honest in the future. I've found that I am a more honest person to this day, and this is a memory that will never choose to fade from my mind; as I learned my lesson that day.
Morrie's aphorism "Accept what you are able to do and what you are not able to do." has a main message. The main message that he wanted to get across was that you have to know what the possible is versus what the impossible is. Although, it means to not give up hope for the things that you want to do. You should try things that you think you can't, but know your limits. The whole message here is to accept what you can and cannot do. There are still things that you can do such as trying things you think you can't do, or you've never done before. An important message that ties into this aphorism is to reach high for your hopes, but don't waste your time doing something you absolutely can't do. Many lessons tie into this: you don't understand what you can/can't do until you lose the ability to, dont fight it when you can't do something, stay true to yourself and don't struggle with something you can't do, put effort in what you're capable of, focus on what you can do and don't stress on what you can't, etc.
One thing that really relates to this aphorism from Tuesday's With Morrie is a quote said by Einstein. This quote reads, "We're all geniuses. But if you judge a fish by it's ability to climb a tree, it will spend its whole life believing that it's stupid." This fits perfectly with Morrie's aphorism because they both talk about how there are things that are simply impossible to do, and if you can't do them it doesn't mean that it's a bad thing; you just accept it.
I agree with this aphorism because I find it very accurate and it applies to regular life. The reason that I agree with it is because I can relate to it. Throughout my life, I had to accept things that I couldn't do such as not exceeding every test that I take. In the book, it says that Morrie "wrote bite-sized philosophies about living with death's shadow..." This is a quote that really ties in with the idea that you should accept what you can do and do things that you've never tried before before you lose the ability to (hence, "death's shadow"). In summary, I really think that this aphorism is accurate and I agree with it.
My aphorism: Live life to the fullest and appreciate small things, as later in life they will become more significant.